Defy the label. Define your path.

Support is here when you are ready.

Use the private scanner to access information shared with you. The scanner runs in your phone browser—there is no app to install.

Scan QR code

Scanning does not contact emergency services. If you are in immediate danger, call 911 when it is safe to do so.

Your timing

Reconnect when you choose. You decide whether to enable external reminders.

Private by default

No email address or phone number is required to begin.

Human support

An advocate reviews access before private case information is released.

For participating organizations

Secure, invitation-only staff access

Authorized staff may sign in with an organization-issued Microsoft or Google account. iDefynMe uses basic identity information—name, email address, and an account identifier—only to authenticate an invited staff member and connect them to the correct approved organization. It does not request Gmail, Drive, Calendar, or contact data and does not use sign-in information for advertising.

Staff sign in